Finally, Get Siblings To Provide The Help They Owe Your Mom

Are You Tired of Busting Your Butt Caring For An Aging Parent While Siblings Don't Lift A Finger?

Introducing A Proven Approach That Gets Cooperation From Family Members When An Elderly Parent Needs Help.

Works On Parents, too!

From the Desk of:
Martin R. Sabel

Dear Friend,

Are you frustrated and angered by the lack of support from your siblings?

I mean is it so bad you lose sleep at night and feel drained every day from worry and anxiety?

If so, don't worry. I have an answer for you

When care for an aging parent takes center stage, deciding what's best often erupts into conflicts between siblings. If you find yourself in that position, you're not alone.

It's frustrating when you find yourself doing all the work caring for your Mom with no emotional support or words of encouragement from other family members. You don't have time for yourself because your spend most of your free time taking care of your Mom's needs. You feel like you are wearing out emotionally and physically and there is no solution anywhere in sight.

Let's face it...

Caring For An Elderly
Parent Isn't Easy

It's perfectly normal in situations like yours to worry about being able to stay on top of care problems emotionally and financially.

And when other family members don't lift a finger to help but are all too happy to criticize the care you provide, it's infuriating, isn't it?

While they spend their time working, going out with their family and friends on weekends, taking vacations and generally enjoying their life, you're the one busting your butt managing Mom's medications, setting up doctor's appointments, grocery shopping and cleaning up the house.

When other members of the family fail to handle their share, it not only adds to your burden, it hurts emotionally. You feel let down, discarded, trapped, unappreciated and alone.

When you're squeezed between caring for your parent, juggling your career (and it's important to hold on to your job during THESE times!), taking care of your family and trying to squeeze out a bit of savings for your retirement, it's no wonder you feel like water trapped in a tea kettle with the flame on high.

The pressure becomes unbearable. Without some relief, you'll boil over. Life doesn't have to be that way.

There Is a Solution. I Know,
Because I found It

The solution is so surprisingly simple anyone can use it to resolve even the most heated disagreements about elder care.

As an Elder Care Strategist, I've helped families cope with the care of aging parents for 15 years. I can't tell you the number of families I've seen who were torn apart by disagreements over elder care issues.

I knew they could live less stressful lives and keep their parents safer and happier if I could just find a way to guide them through the churning, emotional rapids of family disagreements.

The problem is that even though I have great people instincts and a wealth of knowledge about the financial and legal aspects of caregiving, I still didn't know how to step safely into those mine fields.

When my Mom (age 88) was diagnosed with dementia earlier this year and my Dad (89) began worrying about his inability to remember, alarm bells started clanging inside my head. With two siblings out of town and the one in town suffering with Multiple Sclerosis, helping my parents falls squarely on my shoulders. But it won't be a picnic for me since I have a family of my own and run a business at the same time.

I'll need my brothers' help and I am determined care for our parents will not create a rift among us. At first, I didn't have the slightest idea how to avoid it. Then I discovered...  

A Simple Process That
Works Almost Like Magic

Carol and her sister, Susan, are a perfect example.

Carol and Sue's Mom repeats herself over and over. She used to be a tidy housekeeper, but now the place is not kept up like it once was. Dirty pots are left on the stove. Beds are unmade and there is a thin layer of dust on all the furniture. She has trouble managing her medications, too.

Sue only lives a few blocks from her mother. Carol lives 30 minutes away. Yet, it's Carol who visits every day to make sure her Mom takes her medications the right way. Susan can't seem to make the time to help out. The stress of Carol's full time job, supporting your husband in his work, raising her two kids and tending to her Mom's growing need for help is causing her to lose sleep.

When Carol brought it up to Susan, it didn't go well.

"Mom wants to stay at home", Carol told Susan. "She's more comfortable there and has neighbors who can also keep an eye on her. But the demands on my time are wearing me out. I don't have much time for myself or my family any more. My work is suffering, too. With a little help from both of us, I think we can keep her home."

Susan's response was not what Carol expected. "I don't have time to help", Susan bristled. "You have a husband to help you. I'm divorced and have trouble making ends meet. With your two incomes it's easier for you. Anyway, as far as I'm concerned, Mom should live in a retirement home where she can get the help she really needs."

End Sleepless Nights Filled With
Worry, Anger and Regret

"No she doesn't", she huffed. "Mother should stay in her own home! She cannot afford a retirement home. My husband and I have to worry about our retirement and paying for college, something YOU don't have to worry about since you don't have any kids. If you'd just help out more, Mom could stay home like she wants to!"

The conversation exploded into a full scale screaming match. It ended with Susan hanging up on Carol...and Carol having yet another sleepless night filled with all the worry and guilt.

Susan's callous attitude is driving a wedge between the two of them. The arguing really upsets her Mom, too. "I didn't raise these two girls to argue like this," she confided. "Why can't they just get along?"

The stress has gotten so heavy that Carol recently turned to a therapist to deal with it. She wants to keep her Mom safe and happy but she also wants time to spend with her husband and kids. But she doesn't know where to turn.

Sound familiar?

Caring for an elderly parent means there is a lot of work to do. Having family support goes a long way to relieving the pressure of

• providing care
• running errands
• picking up prescriptions
• cleaning the home
• making meals
• managing medicines
• talking with doctors
• locating housing
• managing money
• and the hundreds of other chores that need attention

If you're coping like Carol was you know what I'm talking about.

Imagine Carol's joy when 3 weeks later, Susan voluntarily agreed to visit her Mom to help her with her medications! On top of that, Susan apologized to Carol and came up with a few creative solutions to problems neither one of them thought about before.

What caused Susan's sudden change of heart is a step-by-step, tried and true approach proven to...

• have siblings truly listen, hear and understand your concerns
• help you and other family members work together to come up with al list of creative solutions
• get other family members to actually take on more of your daily caregiving responsabilities

Now if you're thinking, "That sounds nice, but that will never happen in my family", I have good news for you:

This Approach Works
80% of the Time!

What's more amazing, still, is this unique approach can work in as little as few hours. Yes, that's right…in just a few hours.

Earlier this year, I interviewed a husband and wife team who are experts on resolving family conflicts. They train others in a relatively young specialty known as "elder mediation". Elder mediation is where a trained, neutral third party helps the family solve disagreements in a respectful decision-making way.

I was able to get these incredibly talented mediators to reveal the secrets they use to get family members to cooperate using a unique process anyone can use to find answers to serious family caregiving issues.

The really great benefit for you is you don't have to be an expert to use them.

In the eye-opening "do-it-yourself" sections of the interview, they disclose... 

	The 3 biggest mistakes families make in the way they handle communication about elder issues
	The 5 key steps to successfully resolving conflicts. Leave out just one and you doom any discussion to failure
	Rule #1 for resolving family conflicts. Understanding this one point gives you an almost unfair advantage in any conversation
	Two hypereffective techniques trained mediators use so discussions don't become a scraming match
	7 simple-but-effective techniques you can use with your family gathered around the breafast table
	A relatively simple change in perspective that easily turns a family argument into a civil, solution seeking meeting of the mind

That's why I've included:

• Exactly what mediation is and how it works
• Where to find free mediation services
• 27 different types of family elder care conflicts mediation solves
• The one style of negotiating that gets better results than others
• How to leverage the self interest of an uncooperative family member to gain their cooperation
• The 7 times you should NOT use mediation
• A shockingly simple approach ensures your family really listens and understands your concerns

Plus, you'll get specific advice to help you decide:

• When to use a professional mediator
• How to find the best mediator for your situation
• If elder mediation is right for you 

You get all this for the incredibly low price of only $17.

Look at it this way...

That's about what you'll pay for a couple of double mocha, non-fat-lattes at Starbucks.

You'll learn dozens of new ways to open up channels of communication with your family that you never even knew existed. You'll be surprised how easy it can be.

Just a single idea from this amazing report can eliminate years of family strife.

Listen...

Your family is who they are. You're not going to change the way they think or how they react to you. The old saying is true, "If you keep doing things the way you've always done them, you'll always get what you've always got".

Family knows how to "push each others buttons". It's been going on since childhood, right? You expect other family members to be different than they are. That's simply not going to work.

What will work is a change in approach

Rather than beating your head against that same brick wall over and over again, why not step around that wall? The tips, strategies and ideas you'll find out about in this easy-to-follow interview help you do just that. Picture how much better your life would be without the years of bitter struggle and unhappiness you'll live with otherwise.

Why Only $17?

Why am I offering this Instant Help Guide to you for only $17. The reason why is simple:

1. I don't want price to be an issue here. $17 puts the report within easy reach of most people. It's affordable to anyone who is serious about getting more help from family members with less conflict and strife.

2. It's a digital product so I have no inventory or fulfillment costs. I don't have to pay anyone to take the order over the phone so it costs me less to deliver it to you. I can pass along my cost savings to you. So you win and I win.

3. If you're not serious enough to invest $17 for the hard to find methods revealed in the report won't take the time to read and use them anyway.

Buy the Instant Help Report now and start getting the help you need from your family right away.

I'll also throw in…

• A free list of the best places to find a trained elder mediator near you. I've even thrown in a way to find mediators that will not charge you a nickel. (Worth $15)
  
• 10 Tips For A Successful Family Mediation (A $10 value)
  
• My Five Point Guide For Choosing The Right Mediator. You'll get the five key questions to ask every mediator BEFORE hiring them. More importantly, you get the question behind the question…the reason each question is important…and the answers you should expect before agreeing to hire them. (Easily worth $25) 

Why There is Absolutely
No Risk on Your Part

You Have Two Choices Now
To Make Right Now

1) You can continue beating your head against the brick wall of resistance you get from your family and remain frustrated and angry about it.

OR…

2) You can wake up and use the proven steps in this Instant Help Report to have those same family members willing to share some of the caregiving responsibilities, respects your viewpoint, be there to help make stressful decisions and want to work out any differences

So What Will it Be?

Now that I've shown you how this simple secret can shrink your stress by getting family to willingly share more of the caregiving burden, it's time for you to discover it for yourself RIGHT NOW!

This approach is just that powerful! So Order now…while it's still on your mind!

Sincerely,

Martin R. Sabel
Mr. Eldercare

P.S. The techniques revealed in this special report work for 8 out of 10 families. Do yourself a favor and get your hands on it while it's still available.

P.P.S. Remember, you get my unconditional guarantee when you order. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Get your copy here.